Join the community.
Free for everyone. No gatekeeping.
A space for women and non-binary folks in UX and tech who are done being dismissed.
Share frustrations. Get real feedback. Connect with people who've seen these patterns before.
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Real talk
Your manager took credit for your work. Your stakeholder dismissed your research. You got interrupted in that meeting again.
Share it here. People recognize the pattern.
Actual advice
Ask questions. Get specific answers from people who've navigated this before.
Not motivational speaking. Strategy.
Share your wins
Got promoted? Launched something? Use #wins-and-celebrations and #promotions.
Celebrate without pitching. Your success matters here.
Our values.
Honesty over politeness. We name patterns directly. We don't sugarcoat systemic problems.
Strategy over venting. Frustration is valid, but we focus on action. What can you do? What's your plan?
Respect without coddling. We treat each other as intelligent, capable adults. No hand-holding, no talking down.
Confidentiality. What's shared here stays here. Don't screenshot or share others' stories without explicit permission.
The rules.
DO:
- Share experiences, strategies, and resources
- Ask questions about workplace navigation
- Challenge ideas respectfully (disagree with respect)
- Use content warnings for difficult topics
- Celebrate wins in #wins-and-celebrations and #promotions
DON'T:
- Share others' personal information or stories outside this community
- Spam, self-promote, or solicit
- Harass, bully, or attack other members
- Dismiss others' experiences or gaslight
- Derail conversations with "not all men" or "this happens to everyone"